people always tell me that i am not a flirt and that i’m so awkward i don’t know how to flirt. yet every time i fuck up a relationship or a friendship, it’s because i flirted with someone and bounced to someone else. and i keep getting blamed for hurting someone in a way that i didn’t even come close to doing, and i really don’t understand why. if i don’t know how to flirt, then how do i keep flirting with the wrong people and hurting someone else? it’s gotten to the point where the lies are so fucking out of control that i’m being blamed for things i didn’t do and people are believing i did it because at this point it’s assumed that i would do that sort of thing.